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CHECKMATES is a unique dating event designed to foster real, offline connections with trusted people. The twist? People can only join if they’ve been vouched for by a friend. No more guessing games—just genuine, respectful interactions in a fun and safe environment.
Our events take place in various locations across the Netherlands. Once you subscribe, we’ll notify you about upcoming events, including dates and venues.
Expect a relaxed, engaging atmosphere with icebreakers, fun activities, and plenty of opportunities to meet like-minded people. No awkward speed dating - just natural, organic conversations.
It's great if you can attend with the friend who vouched for you, but you don't have to. The vouching happens before the event through our sign-up process. This means that both your single and taken female friends can recommend you!
No, CHECKMATES is not a matchmaking service. We simply create a space for like-minded singles to meet naturally. However, during our events, we might group you based on interests and other information we collect to put you face to face with people we think you'd get along with.
CHECKMATES focuses on creating real, offline connections where participanrts are vouched for by friends. In doing this, we hope to create a safe and welcoming environment where everyone feels more comfortable being approached. Our events emphasize authenticity and meaningful interactions without the pressure of online dating or speed dating.
Our events are designed to be relaxed and casual, allowing everyone to feel comfortable and be themselves. There’s no need for formal attire, just come as you are.
There is no specific dress code. We want everyone to feel comfortable, so we encourage casual, comfortable attire that makes you feel confident. The focus is on the interaction, not on how you look.
We welcome all individuals over the age of 20. Our events cater to adults looking for meaningful connections, whether you’re in your twenties, thirties, or beyond. Each event will generally attract a specific age range, but we strive for diverse participation.
Absolutely! We encourage you to attend with a friend - our events thrive on friends bringing friends. However, keep in mind that your friend will need to be signed up and vouched for if they want to participate.
Yes, CHECKMATES is inclusive and welcomes everyone who is looking for genuine, offline connections. While some of our events are tailored to heterosexual dating, some are for queer dating. We are committed to creating a space where people of all identities can feel safe, respected, and supported.